Dear Ox,
This picture was taken while your Daddy was in Virginia a week ago. Before he left you had taken to darting up the stairs to the attic playroom like a shot of lightning, and he hadn't had a chance to finally make that door close again, so he put the piano bench in front of the stairs as a quick fix. It worked for a day, thwarting your efforts as planned. But by Sunday morning you discovered that if you just held your head down a little longer, and shimmied your shoulders with a little more gusto, you could get right under that piano bench and up the stairs after all.
You were so proud of yourself! You didn't even care so much about actually climbing the stairs anymore; now you just wanted to squeeze under the bench, then look over your shoulder and laugh and yell, then squeeze back out and do it again. I was proud of you too.
Also while your Daddy was gone you broke through your first molar. It's out of order--you still only have the two bottom front--and I wasn't expecting it, and when Shaggy pointed it out to me I got the same weird sinking feeling I got when your sister broke through her first two teeth. Something big had been going on in your body and I despite how close every inch of me is to every inch of you for large parts of the day, I had no idea.
You don't talk, or walk. You have the fine motor skills of a surgeon in training and your favorite thing to do is find cords and available outlets and plug them in. You successfully plug them in. You climb like something fierce; you are beautiful and full of mischief. You are a messy eater. Your hair in the back is wild. You are very charming.
You like to grab fistfuls of hair at the nape of my neck and nuzzle into my forehead and under my chin. I reach up to my neck during the day, thinking about dinner or an email I need to write, only to find a sticky film of leftover banana or sunbutter from your
early morning hugs.
Thirteen months on the thirteenth of May, I think that means this is your magic month.
Thanks for sharing the magic.
Love,
Mama